When we say the word "HURT" it mostly applies to our closed ones. I was thinking from long time why we get hurt and make someone hurt. The major reason behind this is expectation. It could be from your parents, friend, relatives, or your gal/boy.
From my experience, for boys/men when they get hurt they drink(if they have a habit of drinking) else mood off, they want to stay alone, specially away from the person from whom they got hurt.
When it comes to gals/women, its very simple they start CRYING… of course the only weapon they have with them. They get hurt most of the time in a day itself (they expect allot)
If you have a girlfriend then, i bet in a week she got hurt mostly from you(They think we won't understand them better, so we always hurt them). One thing they don;t realize is if we come to know she is hurt, we feel bad, that too its from us, we feel worst….
I don't know why i am saying all this, but this is my message, gals please understand even we have heart, we have eyes so we get tears, we always think 1000 times before we say something because, we want to make sure it will not hurt you….
Finally We can easily overcome this bad feeling if not at least we can reduce its amount. All we need to do is, stop expecting. We get hurt only if we expect your friend to send one forward or at least a message daily, your parents will ask your problems every time when you come home in late night, your close friend call you for some important moments of life etc etc.
PS: Love (GF/BF) is excluded from the list.
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